i have written previously about the devaraj family and my can of bliss boys, but those posts don’t include the numerous other wonderful people i met and have stayed connected to from my early years in bangalore.
there’s mindy, my first friend in bangalore and someone i just got to see again for the first time in 13 years. there’s dorothy, my forever fiancé and one of my favorite people. there’s rob and ellie who have become like family to me. there’s alex, the little brother with whom i have adventured across the world. there’s gugi, who welcomed me and two of my friends into his home in vienna. there’s ashu who now lives in bombay and who always shows up to toto’s if he’s in town when i am. there’s pranay who i see once in a blue moon but we always pick up where we left off. there’s saranya, the cousin i never knew who later housed me in bombay and has become one of my closest confidantes. there’s morgan, affectionately known as my duplicate, who i’ve not seen since 2011 but who still messages me anytime she uses the phrase “hydration is sexy”. there are all these incredible people who have touched my life, who have become travel companions, best friends, co-conspirators, and it’s all because of how my experiences of 20 years ago have shaped me.

first and forever bangalore friend. bangalore, karnataka. september 2005. 
sums us up pretty well. bangalore, karnataka. february 2006. 
we were such babies. bangalore, karnataka. march 2006. 
love my gugi. bangalore, karnataka. september 2007. 
forever fiance. bangalore, karnataka. 
his 19th birthday! bangalore, karnataka. february 2009. 
forever trying to get him to smile properly. bangalore, karnataka. 
we’re pretty hilarious. bangalore, karnataka. february 2010. 
beach babes. gokarna, karnataka. february 2010. 
i love them even if they don’t know how to smile properly for photos. bangalore, karnataka. 2010. 
we took turkey by storm. istanbul, turkey. august 2010. 
sweet georgie. istanbul, turkey. august 2010. 
love my bear. istanbul, turkey. august 2010. 
italian adventures with the mann siblings. puglia, italy. august 2010. 
fiances go abroad. amsterdam, netherlands. august 2010. 
fancy fiances. brussels, belgium. august 2010. 
i love when my friends meet and become each other’s friends. london, england. september 2010. 
love us. london, england. september 2010. 
we’re great entertainment. new york, new york. september 2010. 
veena and 2.0. bangalore, karnataka. june 2011. 
more adventures. delhi. october 2012. 
you know you love us. bombay, maharashtra. january 2013. 
we’re so photogenic. bombay, india. january 2013. 
the best bombay roomies. bombay, maharashtra. april 2013. 
met appachu for drinks last weekend. we’re pretty proud that we can finally afford to buy our own drinks. bangalore, india. june 2015. 
hanging out with the bride while she got her mehendi. calcutta, india. december 2015. 
with the groom. calcutta, west bengal. december 2015. 
avni and me. bangalore, india. december 2015. 
up early for temple visits. siem riep, cambodia. may 2016. 
a bangalore reunion in delhi. delhi, india. may 2016. 
me and my bear. memphis, tennessee. june 2016. 
bear and veena take over portugal. lisbon, portugal. march 2018. 
love these two. sintra, portugal. march 2018. 
a gugi-veena reunion! vienna, austria. november 2018. 
love him. vienna, austria. november 2018. 
besties. london, england. december 2019. 
love this little brother of mine. london, england. december 2019. 
friends for 14 years and still going strong. london, england. december 2019. 
so much fun seeing akka after so many years! new york, new york. july 2022. 
loved having this guy in the city all summer. new york, new york. august 2022. 
first time seeing this friend in 6 years! new york, new york. september 2022. 
lots of refueling happening post-race. brooklyn, new york. april 2023. 
finally got an updated photo! coimbatore, tamil nadu. january 2025. 
annual ashu meetup! bombay, maharashtra. january 2025. 
love my bear. new york, new york. april 2025. 
bugsy reunion after 8.5 years! new york, new york. april 2025. 
loved getting to see mindy after so many years! new york, new york. june 2025.
i will always be grateful for all the people i’ve met and the friends i’ve made because of bangalore.
xx
ed note: i did my best to find my earliest photos with some of these people, so there are some real throwback gems up there